Singapore agent lodges police report after receiving disturbing handwritten offer for sex in exchange for an HDB deal
A senior property agent in Singapore has gone public about a disturbing letter she received, offering a sexual proposition in exchange for closing a real estate deal. The bold harassment shocked netizens and sparked wider conversations on workplace abuse against women in the service industry.
A Shocking Letter Delivered
On 30 June 2025, 30-year-old ERA Realty Senior Marketing Director Desiree Leung shared on Instagram a shocking letter mailed to her office. The handwritten note, purportedly from a potential client, started with vague real estate inquiries before turning into a vulgar sexual proposition.
The sender invited Ms Leung to his home on 6 July at 10am, claiming she would receive a “high commission” if she agreed to spend “one hour” with him. The meeting location was bizarrely set at Jalan Besar Town Council, adding a surreal tone to the already disturbing content.
Agent Speaks Out: ‘I Was In Shock’
Speaking to MS News, Leung said she was “greatly disturbed and uncomfortable” upon reading the full letter, which she only opened on June 30, a day after her office received it. “Although I’ve met weird clients before, this is the first time I’ve received this kind of disturbing letter,” she wrote online.
The unsolicited physical mail—unusual in an era dominated by WhatsApp and emails—heightened her concern for personal safety, especially given her job’s frequent face-to-face nature.
Pattern Of Harassment In Sales Industry
Ms Leung disclosed this was not an isolated case. She previously encountered a man who exposed himself during a video call and has also received sexually inappropriate messages from men attempting to “get to know” her.
She revealed many of her female peers in sales roles, especially in real estate and insurance, have also been harassed—some reportedly upskirted or verbally abused by clients.
Public Outrage, Police Report Filed
The public response to Leung’s post was swift and outraged. Many urged her to file a police report, which she confirmed has been submitted. She now awaits further updates, with authorities stating that a review will be completed in seven working days.
Desiree said she initially shared the letter to vent frustration but was encouraged by friends and followers to publicize it widely as a warning and deterrent. She emphasized the importance of safety for all professionals in public-facing roles.
Raising Awareness Through Social Media
Leung has since expanded her post to Facebook and TikTok to reach a wider audience, hoping to connect with other agents who may have received similar correspondence. “Just because we market ourselves publicly doesn’t mean we’ve signed up to be disrespected,” she added.
Her message resonates especially with young female professionals, as she noted, “As a mother of three, if I’m subjected to this kind of harassment, I can only imagine what younger agents might face.”
This case highlights the pervasive issue of sexual harassment in the workplace, particularly in sales industries where public interaction is frequent. Desiree Leung’s brave decision to go public not only raises awareness but also amplifies the need for stronger protective mechanisms in Singapore and across the region. Respect, decency, and basic human dignity must be non-negotiable—regardless of one’s profession.
Sources: Must Share News (2025) , Stomp (2025)
Keywords: Desiree Leung, Vulgar Letter, High Commission Offer, Property Agent Harassment, Singapore Police Report
